“For true success ask yourself these four questions: Why? Why not? Why not me? Why not now?”
–James Allen 

It is no coincidence that success favors those who have prepared for it. We must evaluate the purpose for what we desire, then gauge our own relationship to it. As Mr. Allen suggests, asking ourselves “why” is a great place to start. When we understand the benefits and relevance of something, we are better able to work toward it. 

Of course, any proper evaluation requires a look at the flipside. Are there cons to your goal? You should look at the “why not” even more intensely than the “why.” This is because you are emotionally attached to the positive reasons for what you want. You have most likely pondered them in your free time. You owe it to yourself to conduct an honest appraisal of any negatives before proceeding with your plan. 

What makes your goal a good fit for you? Identifying its unique relationship to yourself is crucial for you to believe it is possible. Don’t merely assume that you deserve it—take the time to figure how it will help you and why you are a good fit for it. Solidifying these facts in your mind is important to seeing a goal through to completion. 

The final step is to figure out the timing. Is there any reason not to start immediately? There will always be excuses for a delay, but are they authentic? By laying out an action plan, your likelihood of success skyrockets. Don’t let ambiguity rob you of the success you deserve. Figure out the details of your dreams and take the steps to achieve them today!